Are you in a healthy relationship that is driven by communication, compromise, and commitment? You can read this article to get your answer.
A healthy relationship keeps the doors and windows open. Plenty of air is circulating, and no one feels trapped. If the person is meant to be in your life, all the open doors and windows in the world will not make them leave.” However, finding such a relationship is like looking for a needle in a haystack in this world of left and right swipes. Wait, have you met someone worth the challenge? If yes, Kundli Milan can help you decide whether or not you have hit the healthy relationship jackpot.
For those unaware, Kundli is a chart prepared considering the position of planets when you were born according to Vedic astrology. This birth chart is like a road map of your life, and when you find someone with whom your Kundali aligns perfectly, life is a smooth journey. So, what does a healthy relationship look like according to the principles of astrology?
Let us find out.
Sings of a Healthy Relationship According to Astrology
If the following is true about you and your partner, congratulations, you are in a healthy union.
You and your partner have the same sign
Those with the same Sun and Moon signs have possibly found the love of their life. The same signs indicate that you merge with your partner in all the right ways. You have a deeper understanding of each other’s outer and inner selves, with both accepting one another’s nurturing styles, behaviors, and motives.
Sharing the Venus and Moon signs
Do you and your partner have the same Moon and Venus signs? If yes, your relationship ticks the right box. You fulfill each other’s emotional and relationship needs. Moreover, a shared Venus and Moon sign is the sign of speaking the same love language. You display affection and nurture the other the way they want to be loved and nurtured.
The Sun and Venus signs being the same or falling in the same element
If you share the same Sun and Venus sign, or they fall in the same element as that of your partner, you can expect a relationship with no unnecessary fuss. Your life together will be quite easygoing, with shared interests, the perfect display of affection, and open communication (the key signs of a healthy relationship).
Mars and Venus signs are the same or have the same element
Venus is the planet of how we express love, i.e., our love language, and Mars rules all things passionate (including physical intimacy). Hence, having the same Mars and Venus signs or these planets falling in the same element as your partner signifies a strong carnal attraction, another sign of being in a healthy relationship.
Having compatible Saturn placement
Saturn can make or break any relationship. It is a karmic planet that offers stability and structure on which the foundation of a long-lasting relationship lasts. Hence, if this planet is supportively placed in your charts, you can expect long-term compatibility in your relationship to make it healthy and fulfilling.
Positive Moon and Jupiter placements
The Moon signifies emotional satisfaction in the long run, and Jupiter reflects on shared values and long-term goals. When the Moon and Jupiter are correctly placed in relation to the seventh house of your Kundalis, your relationship will be blessed with long-term compatibility, with both of you covering each other’s weaknesses.
Having a good guna or compatibility score
The Vedic astrology scores relationships out of 36. This process of scoring after analysis and comparison of both partners’ charts is known as guna matching or guna milan.
It takes into account eight kootas or aspects of a relationship, namely Varna/Varan/Jaati (spiritual compatibility), Vasya/Vashya (mutual attraction), Tara/Dina (birth star compatibility), Yoni (physical compatibility), Graha Maitri/Rasyadipati (mental compatibility, natural friendship, and affection), Gana (temperament and behavior), Rashi or Bhakoot (love and emotional compatibility), and Nadi (relating to your genes and overall health). A guna or compatibility score of 18 or above after considering all these factors indicates a healthy relationship.
Overlapping Lunar nodes
The north node, i.e., Rahu in your Kundali represents your life goals, what you wish to achieve in the future. While the south node, i.e., Ketu signifies your past-life connections. Overlapping of these nodes in your birth chart or Kundali may indicate a healthy relationship with your partner.
In addition to the above astrological factors, you should not ignore the importance of mutual respect, trust in each other, open communication, the ability to overcome challenges as a team, and shared values and goals when determining whether or not you have a healthy relationship with someone.
Summing Up
This article elaborated on the signs of a healthy relationship that will never want you to sacrifice your dreams, friends, or your dignity, the one that enriches and not imprisons you. While the red flags of a person may skip your sight if love drives your mind, astrological analysis helps you identify them to determine whether or not your relationship is truly healthy. However, understanding the nuisances of astrology may seem overwhelming. Hence, we always recommend consulting an expert astrologer for a deeper insight into the world of stars, for believe it or not, it is all written in the stars.
